The Safe Heart Practice 

 

 

 

When a woman’s heart is closed or armoured, but there is still a strong soul recognition or intense attraction.

 

…the connection defaults to the lower centres.

 

So the bond expresses as:

    •    sexual pull

    •    chemistry

    •    intensity without safety

    •    A lack of commitment 

 

This is not because the man is incapable of love.

It’s because the heart field is not open enough to broadcast receptivity.

 

Men respond to what the field allows, not what the story wants.

 

This practice restores receiving capacity which is what invites a man into heart based connection.

 

When the heart softens:

    •    sexual energy rises into the heart

    •    chemistry becomes tenderness

    •    desire becomes devotion

 

Without this, attraction stays hot but shallow.

 

A closed heart broadcasts:

    •    independence

    •    self containment

    •    “I don’t need you”

 

Men feel this somatically and stay at the level that feels allowed, often sex.

 

This ritual softens those signals without making her needy.

 

It allows the masculine to feel safe to love

 

A guarded feminine heart can feel emotionally dangerous to the masculine even if he desires her.

 

Softening creates:

    •    emotional permission

    •    safety to attach

    •    space for protection and presence to emerge

 

 

It stops her over-functioning or proving worth

 

Once the heart can receive, she stops:

    •    chasing emotional validation

    •    performing intimacy

    •    confusing sex with connection

 

and starts allowing the love she deserves.